Thursday, 30 October 2008

Fight Over

Dad finally gave up his fight and slipped away peacefully at 9.50pm last night.
All his family spent the day with Dad talking to him and he knew we were there.
I have to be strong now for Mam & I'm holding up OK, just have that awful numb feeling.

94 comments:

Greta said...

So very sorry Jak. Hugs to you & the family. Take care. x

Budge said...

I am so sorry to hear this Jak. Thinking of you and your Mum.
But do let your self grieve aswell my dear dont bottle it up.
Tale Care
Love Sylv xx

patsy129 said...

So sorry to hear ths Jak, thinkng of you and your family at this sad time

Foxycrafts said...

Words cannot express how you are feeling, Jak. I am so sorry to hear your sad news. Be strong for your Mam, by all means, but remember to look after yourself too. You and your family are all in my thoughts and prayers. God bless.

Love Joan xx

Cazz said...

So sorry to read your sad news hun xxx My thoughts are with you all xxxx

Shirley said...

please know that my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Just take it one day at a time.
Shirley xx

Anonymous said...

So sorry to hear your sad news Jak.
My thoughts are with you and your family.
Doris

Jean said...

So sorry Jak. Love as always.

Louise Emma said...

My thoughts are with you and your family now Jak, tonnes of hugs for you xx Keep safe and well xx

Kym's Crafty Cards said...

Jak, I am sorry to hear the news about your dad. My thoughts are with you and the family at this very difficult time. Kym

Sue Pardue said...

I'm so sorry to hear about your dad Jak. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

Pam Swadling said...

jak so sorry to hear your news. My heart and prayers go out to you and your family. Take great care of yourself Jak.

Love and hugs


Pam

Chris (Wellnifty) said...

So sorry Jak, my condolences to you, your Mum and all the family.
Take care

Chris x

Anonymous said...

Jak I am so sorry for your loss, I really am. As the others have said you must allow time for you. You need to grieve... My thoughts are with you and your family.
Annie
xxx

scotspanda said...

so sorry to hear about your dad, big hugs to you and all the family

lotsalove

Amanda xx

Ann Whitfield said...

So sorry to hear your news Jak, you and your family are in my thoughts
Ann x

Karen B said...

Such sad news Jak. My thoughts are with you & your family xx

iReneM said...

I am so sorry to hear your news, Jak.
My thoughts are with you, your Mum and your family

Bev said...

Jak I am so sorry to hear of your lost. my thoughts are with you and your family at this sad time.
xxx

Anonymous said...

Jak I am so sorry that your dad's brave fight ended so sadly, but at least you were with him during this time and that must have been a comfort to him.

You and your family are in my thoughts at this saddest of times. Take care.

Sue H

Veronica said...

So sorry - thinking of you at this sad time

Hugs

Vron xx

Helen J said...

So sorry for your loss Jak. My thoughts are with you and your family. Hugs xxx

Marcea said...

I am so sorry for your loss hun. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.
-x-

Jeanne said...

I am so sorry to hear of your loss. May the wonderful memories you have of your father comfort you during this very difficult time. Take care.

Denise Kincaid said...

Jak, I am so sorry for your loss. I will be thinking of you and your family. Please take time for you even though I know it will be hard.

Denise

Crafting Joanne said...

I'm so sorry to hear of you loss, Jak. My thoughts are with you, your mum and family. Take Care xx

Jennifer said...

I'm so sorry for your loss.

Wheezie said...

So very sorry to hear of your loss, my thoughts are with you and your family.

xx Wheezie xx

Wheezie said...

So very sorry to hear of your loss, my thoughts are with you and your family.

xx Wheezie xx

Lavender Rose said...

Thinking of you and your family Jak, please accept my condolences on the loss of your lovely father, take care, Denise xxx

Julie said...

Oh Jak I'm so so sorry :( xxxx

Helen said...

Jak, please accept my condolences on the loss of your Dad
You are in my thoughts

Helen
Cyprus

kath Teabelly said...

So sorry to hear your sad news Jak.
My thoughts are with you and your family.

jules said...

oh Jak , I am so sorry for your loss, all my love and thoughts go out to you and your family ,sat here blubbering , oh I soooooooooo miss my mum xxxx

Alina Brito said...

I'm very sorry, you and your family are on my prayers

Suzanne said...

Sorry sorry to hear this news - My thoughts are with you all at this differcult time
Suzanne

mad mary said...

I am so sorry to hear this Jak, your dad is no longer in pain and your pain will ease in time. My thoughts are with you and your family.

Hugs

Mary

Anne said...

sorry to hear your sad news Jak thinking of you and your family at this sad time

Anonymous said...

So sorry Jak to hear of your sad news, our prayers are with you.

Florrie xx said...

So sorry to hear of your sad loss.

Florrie xx

Christine said...

Sorry to hear of your loss, our thoughts are with you and your family.

Craftylass - CC Forum

Karen J said...

So very, very sorry to hear of your loss Jak. Sending you, your Mam and all your family lots of love and hugs.
Karen xx

Anonymous said...

So sorry to hear about you Dad Jak I m glad you were all with him at the end My condolnces to you and your family especially mum. Take care.
Myrax

Nicci said...

So sorry to hear the news of your dads passing my thoughts are with you and your family at this sad time
nicci

Anonymous said...

so sorry to hear your sad news Jak
you and your family are in my thoughts - libby

whoistracy said...

Oh Jak, I'm so sorry for your loss.

carolaman said...

So sorry to hear your Dad passed over Jak, keeping you and all your family in my thoughts and prayers...Caroline xxxx

Wendy said...

Very Sorry for your loss, I lost my own brother on the 4th of this month, after a long illness, At first I cried all week, Now less than a month on I still miss him so much, But I find myself smileing at the memories and goodtimes we had shared, the pain does lesson and the smiles return.
You are in my prayers

wendy

Jan R said...

I'm so sorry to hear your sad news Jak. Thinking of you and your family at this sad time.
Take care x

Cal said...

So very sorry Jak...no words are enough so I just want to say sorry and Im thinking of you all

christine said...

very sorry to hear of your loss

val090 said...

So sorry to hear your news Jak, parents are very precious. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your mum at this sad time.
Val x

Anonymous said...

My dearest Jak, I am so, so sorry to hear your sad news. Please accept my sincere sympathy to you and your family. My prayers are with you.
Alice (Beemer)

Pat aka Handy said...

Dear Jak pain of loss like this is so hard I send my love to you and all your family may your dear Dad R.I.P
Pat xx

Joanie said...

Thinking of you, and your family Jak, at this very sad time.
Love Joanie xxxx

Chris said...

So sorry to hear about your dad. Thoughts go out to you and your family

Chris

Anonymous said...

Jak I am sorry to hear your Dad is no longer with you. Mere words are not enough so please know that you and your family are in my thoughts. Be strong. Anne (Aybee)

Terri said...

I am so sorry to hear this. I know there is not much I can say to make this better but I hope you can take comfort in knowing he is not suffering anymore and will continue to have wonderful memories of your time with him.

Anonymous said...

Jak
You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers xxx

Anne said...

So sorry to hear your sad news Jak. My thoughts are with you all. Take care xx

Marjie said...

Know that you and your family are in my thoughts and prayers at this very sad time Jak........sending you hugs and love

Marjie X

Anonymous said...

I am so very sorry to hear your sad news Jak. My thoughts are with you and your family at this very sad time.
Sue x

Claire Brennan said...

Oh Jak. hugs and prayers.

Colleen said...

So sorry about your Dad Jak..my thoughts will be with you and your family.

Heather "Hev" said...

My sincerest condolences to you and your family.

Francesca said...

Hello so sorry to hear about your father my thoughts are with you at this sad time

Deb said...

Staying strong is a very hard thing to do and admirable to hold your mum up but you need to let go too hun or it`ll hit you harder later.
My thoughts and prayers are with you at this awful time. Love to you and your family

Anonymous said...

so sorry Jak.I know how you must be feeling I went through the same thing in September
Eileen

Wendy - Anntaurus said...

Sorry to hear your sad news Jak. Love and hugs to you and the Family. Take care.

Wendy -x-

fabienne said...

I'm so sorry for you.

"Courage" is the only word I can think about although I know it's hard to keep it (in French we say "garder courage".

ursula in RSA said...

Jak, so sorry to hear your news. You and your family are in my prayers. Take care

Trish said...

Dearest Jak,
I'm so sorry to hear the sad news about your beloved Dad. Thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family.
My own dad's anniversary of 4 years is tomorrow, I know exactly how you feel.
May God put his comforting arms around you during these difficult days,
From Trish x

Rhonda Kelly said...

So sorry to hear about you dad. My thoughts and prayers and with you and your family. May God bless you all during the days ahead.

Tonniece said...

I have been MIA for a week or so and it saddens my heart to learn of your sad news.
My prayers go out to you and yours.

Linda said...

Jak, so sorry to hear that your dad has passed away. Will be keeping you all in my thoughts in the coming days.

I can only re-iterate what some have already said, although it is admirable to keep strong for your mum, you have to have time to grieve as well. You have to take it one day at a time.

Liz said...

I haven't been online this week so was shocked to read about your sad news Jak. Please take care and look after yourself. your family and your mum. My thoughts and prayers are with you always.x

LindaJay said...

I am so sorry to hear your sad news Jak. My thoughts are with you and your family. Take care. x

Anonymous said...

sorry to hear about your sad loss jak,i am thinking of you and your family at this difficult time.take care of yourself love jean x

Chris said...

My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family . Hugs to all of you!

Anonymous said...

so sorry to hear your sad news, my heart goes out to you and your family, sending you and your family loads of hugs,
my thoughts are with you and your family

Lorna xx
Las

Sue said...

Hugs to you and your family. My thoughts are with you.

Anonymous said...

so very sorry about your father's passing

Christine said...

So sorry to hear your sad news, I am thinking of you and your family and sending hugs to you all

Christine xx

Chris said...

I'm so sorry to hear about your Dad... you must be feeling so lost without him.
My thoughts are with you and your family ((((hugs))))
Chris xx

Cindy Lyles said...

I am so very sorry to hear of your loss - please know I am thinking of you and wishing you strength now and in the days to come.

Billie said...

I'm so sorry to hear of your loss. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.

Hugs

Billie xx

Alli Miles said...

Sweet Jak! I am sorry for your loss. You will be in my thoughts and prayers.

Clare said...

so sorry to hear the sad news, my thoughts are with you all, love Clare x

Rainbow Lady said...

Thinking of you at this sad time Jak. Stay strong for the rest of the family. Love thoughts, prayers and hugs Cynthia x

joycey said...

Hugs and prayers for you and your family Jak
Joycey x

Anonymous said...

Jak im so sorry to heat about your dad..my thoughts and prayers are with you your Mom and all your family
Take care
Hugs n lov Lizx xx

Hammersue1 said...

MY thoughts are with you at this sad time. It all gets better with time. great that you can be strong for the family my blessing are with you all.

shellshearer said...

so sorry to hear your sad news you and your family ae in my thoughts xx

Katie Renz said...

Hi Jak,

I just found out about your loss and wish you and your family the very best. Everything you've described that you are doing sounds beautiful and a great tribute to someone you love dearly. Just know that I will be thinking of you and that time does make things easier.